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When the Heart Aches: Real “Bring Him Back Quick Spells” from My Spirit to Yours
Let me guess, my child. The loudest sound in your house right now is the silence. It’s the quiet hum of the refrigerator where his laughter used to be. It’s the space in the bed that feels cold no matter how many blankets you use. It’s the weight of your phone in your hand, a phone that refuses to light up with his name. I know that ache. It’s a physical thing, a hollowness in the chest that steals your breath. You’ve come here searching for bring him back quick spells, and what you’re really searching for is hope.
My name is Baba Ali, and for more years than I can count, I have sat with souls just like yours. I have listened to the stories, felt the tears, and guided them through the spiritual work of mending a broken heart. Please, take a deep breath. I want you to know that this is not about dark magic or forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do. This is a conversation about love. It’s about clearing the dust and debris that has settled between two hearts, so the light can shine between you once more.
In this space together, I will share what I know. We will walk through this gently, step-by-step. I will show you how to prepare your own beautiful spirit for this work, how to perform rituals that are simple but steeped in ancient power, and most importantly, how to hold yourself with grace while you wait for the universe to answer. Your journey back to love—and back to yourself—begins right now.
Before We Touch a Single Candle: Preparing the Sacred Ground of Your Heart
Imagine you want to grow a beautiful rose. Would you toss the seed onto dry, rocky ground? No. You would lovingly prepare the soil, make it rich and welcoming. Your heart is that soil. Rushing into a spell when you’re filled with panic and pain is like planting in a storm. We must first find our calm, our center. This is the secret that makes the magic work.
Your Intention: The Compass for Your Spell
A spell without a clear intention is like a ship without a rudder—it will simply drift. Before you do anything else, I want you to ask your heart a question. Not your mind, which is full of fear, but your heart. What do you truly want?
Is it just to have him back, no matter what? Or is it to have him back happy, to rebuild a love that is healthy, joyful, and strong for you both? See the difference? One is about control; the other is about love.
Close your eyes for just a moment. Picture him smiling, his face soft and happy. Now, picture yourself next to him, just as happy. Feel that warmth. That is your intention. It should be a prayer for mutual joy. In my long experience, the universe always responds more powerfully to a prayer for happiness than a demand for possession.
Cleansing: Making Room for a Miracle
Think of all the pain, the angry words, the tears… they leave an energy behind, like dust settling on furniture. We need to gently wipe it all clean to make your spiritual home feel fresh and welcoming again.
First, give yourself a spiritual bath. You don’t need anything fancy. Run a warm bath and add a few handfuls of regular sea salt or Epsom salts. As you step in, imagine you are stepping into pure, healing light. As you soak, visualize all the sadness, anger, and fear dissolving from your body, turning the water grey, and then going down the drain, away from you for good. You will feel lighter. I promise.
Next, cleanse the room where you will do your work. Open a window to let in the fresh air. You can burn a bit of sage or incense, but honestly, even just clapping your hands sharply in each corner of the room can break up that heavy, stagnant feeling. You want the space to feel clear, calm, and ready. This is a basic practice for all spiritual work, which we discuss more in our [LINK to our related internal article on spiritual cleansing].
A Gentle Word on Free Will
My child, I must be very honest with you about this. We cannot, and should not, ever try to break someone’s free will. That is not love; it is imprisonment, and it will always backfire.
Think of it this way: Imagine the path from your heart to his is overgrown with thorny bushes of misunderstanding and blocked by boulders of pride. Our work with these love spells to bring him back is not to drag him down the path against his will. Our work is to be the gardener. We trim the thorns, we move the boulders, and we make the path clear, beautiful, and inviting. We light a lantern at our end so he can see the way home. But the choice to take that first step must always, always be his. This is the way of respectful, powerful, and lasting magic.
Simple Spells from an Old Soul: Your First Steps to Calling Him Home
Now that your heart is prepared, let us begin. Read through these simple rituals. One of them will speak to your spirit more than the others. Trust that feeling. That is the one you should start with.
The Honey Jar Spell: A Sweet Whisper to His Soul
Honey jar spell is one of the kindest, most beautiful spells I know. It doesn’t force or demand; it just sweetens his thoughts of you, reminding his soul of the good times and melting away the bitterness.
What You’ll Need:
A small, clean glass jar with a lid.
Honey (or maple syrup, molasses—anything pure and sweet).
A small piece of paper (brown paper from a paper bag has a wonderful, natural energy).
A pen with red ink, the color of the heart.
A photo of him is helpful, but not essential.
A pinch of something you associate with love: a rose petal, a dash of cinnamon, or a bit of lavender.
The Ritual:
Write Your Petition: On the paper, write his name three times in a column. Now, turn the paper a quarter turn and write your own name three times, crossing over his. This visually joins you together.
Circle Your Love: Around your woven names, write your wish in a circle without lifting the pen. Something like, “MayJohnSmiththinkofmeMaryJoneswithonlyloveandsweetnessanddesiretocomehome.” It should be one continuous loop.
Assemble with Love: Fold the paper towards you, always drawing the energy to you. Place it in the jar.
Pour the Sweetness: As you slowly pour the honey into the jar, speak from your heart. “As this honey is sweet, so are your thoughts of me. As it flows, so does your love back to me.” Watch how it lovingly, completely covers the petition.
Seal Your Hope: Add your pinch of herbs, seal the jar tightly, and hold it in both hands. Close your eyes and pour all your love, all your happy memories, all your hopes into this jar. Feel it get warm in your hands.
Baba Ali’s Wisdom: Find a quiet place for this jar, perhaps on a windowsill where it can catch the moonlight. A few times a week, just pick it up and give it a gentle shake. It’s like gently waking up the spell, reminding the universe of your heart’s desire.
The Red Candle Spell: A Beacon in the Night
Fire is a messenger. It carries our prayers up to the heavens. A red candle is a beacon of love and passion, a lighthouse calling your ship safely back to shore.
What You’ll Need:
One red candle. Any size will do, but one that can burn for a while is best.
A pin or a small nail to carve with.
A little olive oil.
A fireproof plate or holder.
The Ritual:
Prepare the Candle: Gently wipe the candle down. You want to clear it of any energy from the store or from other hands. This is your candle now.
Carve Your Names: Using the pin, carefully etch his name down one side of the candle and your name down the other. You are literally putting your energies into the candle’s heart.
Anoint with Intention: Pour a tiny bit of olive oil into your palm. To draw love to you, rub the oil from the top down to the middle, then from the bottom up to the middle. As your hands warm the wax, see his face in your mind. See him smiling at you.
Light the Flame: Place the candle on its plate. Take a slow, deep breath. As you light the wick, know that you are not just lighting a candle; you are lighting a beacon for his heart.
Speak Your Truth: Gaze softly into the flame and speak. You don’t need fancy words. Just speak your heart. “I light this flame to warm the path between us. May [His Name] feel this warmth, may he remember our love, and may this light guide him home to me.”
The Vigil: Let the candle burn for as long as you can sit with it peacefully—even 15 minutes is powerful. When you are done, snuff the flame out (don’t blow it, that’s like scattering the prayer). You can relight it each night for seven nights.
Baba Ali’s Wisdom: The real magic happens in the moments you sit with the flame. Don’t scroll on your phone. Just be present. Watch the flame dance. Feel your love pouring out of you and into that light. That focused silence is more powerful than any words.
The Photograph Spell: Mending the Unseen Threads
Between two people who have loved, there is an invisible thread of energy. When you break up, that thread becomes frayed. This gentle ritual is like carefully, lovingly stitching it back together.
What You’ll Need:
A photo of him, preferably one where he is smiling.
A photo of you, where you look genuinely happy and confident.
A needle and a length of red or pink thread.
The Ritual:
Hold the Memories: Take a moment to just hold the two photos. Look at them. Remember the joy you see in those pictures. Let that feeling of happiness fill you up.
Bring Them Together: Place the two photos facing each other, so your images are looking into each other’s eyes.
Stitch with Love: Carefully, begin sewing the edges of the two photos together. With every single stitch, whisper a quiet prayer or affirmation. “One stitch to heal the past. One stitch to make our love last.”
Seal the Bond: When you have sewn all the way around, tie three firm knots. As you tie each one, say “Bound by love,” “Healed in love,” “Together in love.”
Keep it Sacred: Wrap your stitched photos in a soft, clean cloth (a piece of an old t-shirt that smells like you is wonderful) and place it somewhere private and safe. This is a secret treasure, just for you.
Baba Ali’s Wisdom: This spell is an act of profound intimacy. The power is in the slow, deliberate motion of your hands mending what was broken. It is a meditation on healing. Don’t rush it. Let every stitch be a prayer.
When the Situation is Deeper: Advanced Paths to Reconnection
Sometimes, the obstacles are larger, and we need to ask for a little more help. These practices are for those who feel ready to go a bit deeper in their spiritual work.
A Petition at the Crossroads
In my tradition, the crossroads is a place where the veil between worlds is thin. It is a place of choice, of change, of possibility. It’s where you can go to ask the spirits to open the roads for you. This requires great respect. It involves bringing a humble offering (like three coins or a piece of fruit), speaking your petition clearly, and leaving without looking back, trusting that your message has been heard. This is an act of profound faith, like posting a letter directly to the spirit world. You can learn more about the significance of this practice from historical folklore sources.
The Whispers of the Earth: Using Herbs and Roots
The plants of the earth have their own energy, their own magic. You can create a small bundle of herbs in a red cloth bag (a mojo bag) to carry with you.
Rosemary: To keep you in his mind.
Rose Petals: To re-inspire pure, romantic love.
Lavender: To bring peace and healing to the connection.
Carrying these on your person keeps your intention active and close to your own energy field. It’s a constant, gentle call to his spirit.
The Traps of the Heart: Mistakes That Can Weaken Your Work
I have sat with so many people, my child. I have seen what works, and I have seen what gets in the way. It is almost always our own human hearts that create the biggest roadblocks. Please, be gentle with yourself, and try to avoid these.
Chasing Love Away with Desperation: Your spell is a tiny seed you have just planted. Your desperation—the constant checking of your phone, the crying, the panic—is a flood that will wash that seed away. You must cast your spell from a place of loving hope and then trust.
Smothering the Magic with Obsession: After you plant a seed, you don’t dig it up every day to see if it’s growing. You trust the process. After you cast your spell, let it go. Live your life! Go for a walk. Laugh with a friend. Every time you obsessively check his social media, you are digging up your seed. Let it be.
Weakening Your Power by Talking: Your spell is a precious, fragile secret between you, your heart, and the universe. When you tell your friends, you invite all their opinions, their doubts, and their fears into your sacred work. It’s like letting a crowd of people trample your garden. Keep it secret. Keep it safe.
Forgetting That the Universe Has Its Own Timing: Spiritual work doesn’t operate on our impatient schedule. It might work in an hour, or it might take a few months to gently align all the pieces. Trust that things are moving, even when you cannot see them.
The Sacred Art of Waiting: What to Do After the Spell is Cast
This, my child, is perhaps the most important part of the magic. Your work is to become a lighthouse. And what does a lighthouse do? It doesn’t run all over the island looking for ships. It just stands tall, shines its light, and trusts that the ships will find their way to its shore.
Shine Your Own Light
The most powerfully attractive force on this planet is a person who is genuinely happy and at peace with themselves. Go get your haircut. Buy a new book. Take a class. Do something that makes you feel alive and beautiful. Fall in love with your own life again. He fell in love with you once; let him come back and find you even more vibrant and wonderful than before.
Notice the Small Nudges
The universe will whisper to you to let you know it’s working. You’ll hear your special song on the radio. You’ll see his name in an unexpected place. A friend will mention him out of the blue. These are not coincidences. They are little winks from the spirit. When they happen, just smile and say a quiet “thank you.” It is confirmation that your prayer is being answered.
Questions from an Aching Heart
How long do bring him back quick spells take to work? Ah, the question every heart asks. I understand the urgency you feel. There is no clock on this work. Sometimes the shift is immediate; other times, the universe has to gently move many things around to clear the path. The best thing you can do is release your attachment to “when” and trust in the “if.”
Are these voodoo spells to bring him back safe? Absolutely. The magic I teach is born from love, light, and the earth. We are not cursing, hexing, or forcing. We are healing, sweetening, and inviting. As long as your heart’s intention is for genuine happiness for both of you, this work is beautiful and safe.
What if the love spell to bring him back doesn’t seem to be working? First, be patient. Second, be honest with yourself. Have you been living in a state of desperation and fear? If so, your energy may be blocking the spell. Do another cleansing bath and refocus on shining your own light. And sometimes, the universe’s greatest gift is an unanswered prayer. Sometimes, it is protecting you from someone who is not meant for you, to make way for an even greater love.
Can I do a spell if the breakup was my fault? Yes, my child. This is a beautiful time to do this work. The key is to add humility. Before your spell, write a letter to him (you will not send it). Pour out your apology, your regrets, your understanding of your part in the pain. Then, burn this letter safely, releasing your apology to the universe. This act of accountability is incredibly powerful and can dissolve the biggest energetic blocks.
A Final Blessing on Your Journey of the Heart
We have walked a long path together today. Please remember this: the candles, the herbs, the words… they are just tools. Beautiful tools, but tools nonetheless. The real magic is, and always has been, inside of you. It is in the love in your heart, the clarity of your hope, and your courage to believe in a second chance.
You are not powerless. You are the loving gardener of your own life. Do your work with grace, release it with faith, and then turn your focus back to tending to your own beautiful soul. Love will find its way. It always does.
Now, I invite you to share. What is one beautiful thing you will do for yourself this week to call your own power back? Let us lift each other up in the comments below.
